(excerpts from this weeks sermon that have remained in my thoughts)…
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those whom ask him!” - Matthew 7:7-11
Children need, and the fascinating thing is, they ask. Fascinating, I say, because somewhere between childhood and adulthood asking becomes unthinkable. But it isn’t for children. It’s natural. It’s reflex. In a sense, they are wiser then we….Because somewhere between birth and adolescence we all lose that wisdom which sees ice cream and just asks. The serpent’s whispers have gone down deep. The only people worth anything are those that feed themselves, he tells us.Go on, take the fruit. Then you’ll be independent, like he is……If the goal of our lives is advancement toward some end, some goal of grown-up independence, we have fundamentally misunderstood the nature of the world…
We pray because we need. We are not created independent, but dependent. We are not created to be self-sustaining, but to be served.…
Your place in the universe should be as obvious to you as hunger. You are in a position of need. Specifically, you need provision. Every day….By contrast, when I find myself in a position of need I usually feel like I’ve done something wrong….Jesus calls this phenomenon what it is: unbelief. (Matthew 6:26-27)…The fundamental problem, Jesus tells us„ is that we misunderstand our place, and God’s. Our place is need. God’s place is service. It is actually His joy to serve. (Matthew 6:28-29) Our job is to need and ask. Anything less exposes our unbelief. Do we believe that God is Father? Do we trust him with our daily needs?…
The Father Provides. It’s pointless to worry about provision. Provision is simply not our job. It’s God’s. Our job is to seek God’s kingdom where the rhythm of need-ask-receive is as natural and as common as drawing breath. Worry is foreign in God’s family. The Father knows. All we do is ask…
We Pray because we need Love…
We need to know that our Father still exists, and that his feelings toward us have not changed. Paul writes,
The spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God -Rom 8:16
Do we come with the expectation that God will again wrap you up with fierce embrace?…We know what happens to children that don’t get that kind of love growing up. Distrust. Insecurity. Shame. Doubt. The adopted sons of the Father of the universe don’t have to live that way. We need love. And he is ready to provide.
We Pray because we have no idea what to pray for…
Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. -Romans 8:26
I don’t know about you, but this kind of prayer comes least natural to me. I feel like I have to get the words right for God to hear. But is that who scripture says God is? Does he really see us there on the doctors table and withhold affection until we learn to say “hug”?…
We pray because we need comfort…
(2 Corinthians 1:8-9)
Have you ever despaired of life itself? Have you felt like you were under a death sentence? It happens….Christian, that whisper in your ear that tells you that God enjoys seeing you suffer, or that he doesn’t care, or that he doesn’t see, that voice is a foul lie. That voice will be thrown into the lake of fire and be tormented forever for leading you astray. Fathers hate seeing their children suffer… If you suffer, It is necessary. It is because God has something that so far outweighs your suffering that one day you will look back and say with Paul,
For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. - Romans 8:18
No Father delights in the suffering of his children. We can cry out with confidence to our Father in suffering, and be assured of his comfort, for our pain is his also.
Finally we pray because we need forgiveness.
The simple truth is that the life of prayer and need and service is utterly foreign to us. We do not pray, and this simply because we do not believe. We still behave like sin-sick adoptees, stealing bread from mom and dad’s pantry and hiding it under the mattress. but there is one who prayed well. He prayed
Not as I will, but as you will -Matthew 26:39
God heard his prayer, and we can be saved…. Children need. The Father Serves. The son died to save. O, how proud we are in our serious meditations with our serious friends and serious talk about serious things. But anyone could see what we really need is a bath.
- Aaron Youngren
(For the entire sermon, which is my recommendation, click here)